Do you feel that you’re always saying the wrong things to the people you love the most? Does it seem like your relationships can only go so far? Do you feel that you are somehow trapped in a negative range of emotions that no matter how hard you try and care about people around you, they just can’t seem to understand you?
It’s very tempting to look at that situation and assume the role of a victim. It’s very tempting to say that you were just “born that way”. No you’re not. Everything about you, believe it or not, and like it or not, is a choice. Everything from your appearance, to the way you talk to the things that you choose to talk about, and how much money you have in the bank, all of those and many more are results of your choices.
Guess where else they come from? They are from inside your mind. Don’t for a moment think that your personality has somehow “doomed” you to a certain life. That’s an illusion. You’re not stuck. You’re definitely entitled to feeling frustrated, but you can make a choice because it is your life.
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Emotional intelligence is built on the solid foundation of self-awareness. When think that you are somehow stuck with a certain personality that produces negative results, you’re not.